Let’s cut to the chase: You deserve to feel sexy, celebrated, and unapologetically yourself. As a non-binary photographer, I specialize in creating a safe, affirming space for trans femmes, crossdressers, and genderqueer folks to explore their sensuality (without the cis-het nonsense).
Whether you’re marking a milestone, boosting confidence, or just treating yourself, here’s how to prep for a shoot that’ll make you gasp, “Damn, that’s ME?!”
Why do a sexy shoot as a trans person?
Confidence on tap: Dysphoria who? I’ll guide you through poses that highlight YOUR magic, not your insecurities.
Celebrate your journey: HRT anniversary? Post-op euphoria? Just feeling fine as hell? Let’s freeze this moment in time.
How to Prep Like a Pro
1. Grooming & Glow-Up
- Hair: Freshly styled or a wig? Your call. I’ve got a client closet with options!
- Makeup: Pro tip: Orange concealer neutralizes 5-o-clock shadow, and contour softens angles. Want my makeup artist hands? Just say yes.
- Skin & nails: Exfoliate, moisturize, and maybe paint those nails. Glossy or goth: your vibe, your rules.
2. Tucking 101 (If You Want!)
- Practice ahead if you’d like to tuck. I’ve got beige tape on deck. But zero pressure: All bodies are boudoir-worthy. Photoshop can also help tweak anything you’d like minimized.
3. Lingerie Hacks
- Bras not playing nice with your ribcage? I’ve got bra-extenders to lengten the band. Need more cleavage? Cutlets to the rescue.
- Struggle = normal: Lingerie’s often designed for cis bodies, but we’ll make it work!
4. Chill & Hydrate
- Nervous? That’s totally normal. Bring a comfort item, sip some water, and trust me: you’ll be having fun by pose #3.
What to Expect Day Of
Vibe check: We’ll chat over tea/coffee before touching a camera. Your boundaries will always be celebrated.
Posing for your body: I’ll tweak every angle to flatter your silhouette and preferences.
Your safe space: No weirdness, no bigotry, no judgment, just you shining.
“Is this so different from a ‘regular’ boudoir shoot?”
Nope. Same glam, same empowerment – with zero assumptions about your body or journey.
Models featured in this blogpost, top to bottom: Ellen, Shinylights, Auré.
